We need to stop underestimating the power of female friendships

I think soulmates aren’t just romantic partners. They can also be your friends. We’ve all seen posts about male best friends and how amazing they are, while female friendships always seem to be criticised. I’m not saying that male friendships are bad, but they’re not perfect either. The best thing about guys is that they’re comfortable with themselves no matter what they do or who they are. Girls, on the other hand, are always trying to prove they can do anything a guy can, but why? Have you ever seen a guy trying to prove he can do everything a girl can? The same goes for friendships. I’ve seen many girls saying their male BFFs are the best because there’s no gossiping or backstabbing, and they’re just chill. But there’s no competition between us. We need to accept that these two genders are different, and that’s okay. Girls have their own charm. If you want to appreciate your friendship with a guy, go for it, but don’t compare it to female friendships. Yes, we can’t just go to our friend’s place with a single phone call because we have restrictions, unlike guys. But the thing that no one talks about is the peace and comfort you find in your female best friend. They don’t judge you. You can talk to them for hours about your feelings, family, future, past, or anything you want. Even if she’s not physically there, she’s just a phone call or a text away. Let’s break the myth that girls don’t support each other or help each other. We do. For example, when a girl needs a sanitary pad, almost every girl is there to give her one, even if they don’t know each other. And in the girls’ restroom, you can cry out your problems, and boom, there are all these girls helping you out to solve them. It’s time to accept that girl best friends are the best. Stop being shallow and saying that you only make boy BFFs because they’re cooler than girls. I’m not against male BFFs, they’re pretty cool too, but that doesn’t mean you can disrespect female friendships. There are toxic friends in both genders, and boys also get betrayed by their BFFs. It’s not a gender issue. So, girls, let’s start supporting each other, fixing each other’s crowns, and being comfortable with whatever we do. There’s nothing wrong with being a girly girl and doing girly stuff together. Do whatever you want – makeup, dress-ups, selfies, cooking, gossiping, crying, laughing – it’s all okay. We don’t have to do what boys do to make our friendships special because WE ARE DIFFERENT.

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