Turning 30 and not getting married is still a big fuss in our society. As soon as girls hit their 20s, parents start searching for potential matches for them. The limit, for most open-minded parents, is “abhi tou parh rhi hai bas jese hee iska last year hota hai rishta wishta krden gen”. It’s fine if she’s ready for that, but most girls nowadays are not ready. They want to do more than just study. Why spend so much on her education when you don’t even let her work? Shaadi k bad krlena jo krna ho, no please don’t impose restrictions on your little girls. Jo baat baap k ghar men hoti hen jo ziden baap poori krskta hai wo aur koi nhi krskta. Let her do whatever she wants while she is under your roof. You never know what the future holds for her, how her in-laws will be, and how tough her life will be. If she wants to travel, hang out with friends, and focus on her career, let her do that and support her. Be her backbone. When a girl has her father’s support, trust me, no one in this world can mistreat her. Make her foundation strong. Before getting her married, let her stand on her own feet. God forbid if something wrong happens to her after marriage, she should not depend on anyone. She should be strong enough to stand up for herself with the confidence that her father has her back. The ages of 25 to 30 are crucial for building a career. After marriage, it becomes hard— not impossible, but hard to pursue a career. There are more hurdles than you can imagine. Sometimes girls prefer to leave their jobs after marriage to run their households because it’s overwhelming to balance both worlds. Getting married late is better than marrying the wrong person. Don’t rush her just because wo 25 ki hogaye hai beti hai wo bojh nhi. Let her grow and let her choose what she wants for herself.
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